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Thursday, December 20, 2007,6:30 AM
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Alright I came across this website from YAHOO that tells about how men should approach the ladies in a way that they won't end up in a awkward outcome. Most of the time we always think that the best way to approach a woman is through some sweet and clever line, however it's not how you talk that will matter but rather is on how you take your action. The following content is a bit long but I believe is quite worth to have a look especially for all the guys who like to approach those hot ladies out there... LOL
- Walk with confidence. When you see a woman that you are attracted to, walk right over. Stand up straight and walk over slowly but with confidence. Make sure your chest is puffed out and your posture is looking strong and not slumped over. Keep eye contact as you approach. Do not hesitate. Most men linger in the background before they approach, then, when you finally do approach, she is quick to turn her back on you. The reason is that you did not exude confidence. Most women notice who is observing them. When you do not approach within seconds of spotting her, you might as well go home
- Lose the male pack. When out on the town, avoid being seen with the drunken testosterone pack of males. One of the biggest turn-offs for women is the "male pack" -- you with five of your buddies high-fiving each other, drinking and checking out other women. When you approach a woman with your buddies waiting on the sideline, she will impulsively reject you in front of the pack to avoid being scrutinized later. Break away from the male pack and find one other guy to go out on the town with. Save the male bonding for a sports bar.
- Dress for a strong appearance. Make sure you're not sabotaging your efforts with your attire. If you look like a slob, it will not matter what your body language says, because you will look like every other man who put no thought into what he was going to wear that night to attract women. Buy clothing that makes you stand out from the rest of the men. Find a cool pair of jeans and some great shirts that give you an edge, so when you walk in with the right body language, women will see you. Keep in mind that shoes are really important too, so find a few pairs that look great on you.
- Create a spark within her. Most men's conversation will center on being agreeable and non-confrontational in the hopes that she likes you. In the mind of a woman, playing it safe equals boring! You need to spark her interest by being a bit disagreeable. For example, you get into a conversation about summer movies and she says that "Spiderman III" was her favorite Spidey movie so far. Instead of being agreeable, look her right in the eye with confidence and tell her that she is so wrong -- the first Spiderman was superior. Then proceed to tell her why you think so. This will create a fun, friendly, flirtatious verbal sparring, which will create a spark in her brain. She will realize that you are not a pushover like most men and attraction will start to form in her head.
- Maintain some tension. Flirting with women is all about gathering information, so the better listener you are, the better your chances. When you call her, you will have more things to talk about. Before calling a woman, I think about everything she said and then I pick the most juicy topic or opinion and challenge her with it. For example, going back to the example of "Spiderman III," I would text her the next day: "I was thinking U + I need 2 re-watch Spiderman. U R so wrong. Name the time + place + I'll bring the DVD."
Above content are taken from the following website http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/11178/actions-speak;_ylc=X3oDMTFycm9uYmdkBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawNhY3Rpb25zLXNwZWFrLWxvdWRlci10aGFuLXdvcmRz
Well for me I definitely hope to learn something from this and I believe what it says is very true and practical. 80 percent of human interaction are based on non-verbal body language, no wonder they always like to say 'Action speak louder than words!'
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
