Finally manage to find some extra free time to update my blog.
Has been super busy since started working at the St.James restaurant, almost full shift everyday which is about 11hrs! Wow I never thought I can work so long as in the past I usually work 8 or 9 hrs only in all jobs. Too bad la in the past I not willing to sacrifice my time for work, I always thinking of enjoying life..haha If not I think I won't be that broke already.. well well..
Alright so let's talk about the job. $7/hr with 2 meals provided, extra tips allowance and free transport back home for those who worked after 12. For me I think this is a really good pay job compare to many other F&B jobs outside.
Talking about the people there, all I can say is that there will always have some fucker around and some people who even don't know why they working there. Seen too much of these people already, can't find any words to describe them and I never have any worry towards them, you think you wanna fuck me up? Think twice before trying me.
Oh the restaurant is split into 4 sections which consist of 'Ah Wok', Japanese BBQ 'Charcoal', Alley Bar and selling Dim Sum at 'DRAGONFLY'! Currently I station both a 'Ah Wok' and 'Dragonfly'. I would say working at 'Dragonfly' is damn good lohx, own time own target, nobody will come and disturb you as long as you tried to sell your dim sum to all tables and can watch free performance over there too! Haha don't even need to pay or wait until the legal age to go in, tips money there is pretty good, all the customers over there are quite nice and friendly too. Oh one thing not to be missed, there's many babes and 'Lao Chio' over there..LOL
Although the fact that it is quite tiring job, the environment there is quite good and most of the fellow colleague are friendly and able to work as a team. Seriously I hope to stay in this job for long and I believe I will start enjoying working over there.
I never expect or should I say I try not to expect much from others, I won't care if you are my junior, senior, manager, boss or who ever, I will always do my part first and is up to you to decide whether to work together with me. I treat everyone more like a friend instead of rank difference and I'll be the first person to show some respect but don't treat this as a advantage over me.
School gonna starts in about two weeks time, looking forward for the new semester but on other hand it means poly life is getting nearer to an end. No mood to talk about school life now, so currently just focusing on performing well in my job, I'm quite glad that I have received more appreciation in this job compare to all my previous F&B jobs.
Hope everything will go fine and smooth, anyone who wanna meet me please tell me earlier in advance now so that I can make arrangement to my timing. The working time there is very flexible, so damn good la..LOL
Ciaos!
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Wednesday, March 26, 2008,10:29 AM F&B
Alright so the packeting job is gone, don't ask me why cause all I know is that they don't really need people now.
So after nearly one year, I'm going back to my 'all times favorite F&B job line'. This time round the location is at.. St.James! Wow first time gonna do mid-night work shift and some more is a completely new environment. I'm just a bit worry that I can't 'tahan' during the late hours, well hopefully it won't be that tough after getting used to it, anyway I didn't really go to bed early since holiday started..lol
The pay is quite good although there's no double pay on holiday, however this is the best pay I ever get from a F&B job. The fact is that all F&B jobs are not easy, pay is important but appreciation earns the most credits. I swear I won't made the same old mistakes from the past anymore, this world is cruel, effort is the main key to keep you firm onto the track but along the way be flexible. Think again, not everyone understand the meaning of effort and when this happen, be good buddy to them and you won't lose your way. Is damn true..
I'm not really working inside a pub or club, is just a restaurant located inside St.James. However I have this thought that if I'm possible to find a way to work inside the club, I would like to give it a try! Maybe one day I can even become a DJ.. LOL
I have slack enough and I really wanna work hard now, that feeling has vanished and I know that I'm still a 'Playboy'. Being serious and work is the main concern now but to settle down and sacrifices my love for other is still not possible. Someone told me not to be 100% serious in this matter, I believe is true but someday is a opposite mind-set to it as you know the playing time is over. For the time being, I swear to myself there's no way I should be 100% committed and I still love myself more than other.
Ciaos.. I Love Me! ^_-
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Monday, March 24, 2008,11:02 PM Photos!
Alright is time to share some photos! Well 'Stole' these photos from my 'Lao Po' Hui Jin's blog..lol These are some photos that we took on xue lin's birthday. Come see see..! ^^
We like to CHEERS!
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---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- More photos here.. Alright I admit I like to open my eye BIG BIG when take photo..lol
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Wednesday, March 19, 2008,9:45 AM New Reflection
Today I learn something new again.. Actually not really a new thing about life cause I already knew it long time ago, but from now onwards I believe I'm able to overcome all these problems already.
I'm not sure what's the reason and since when I started to lose confident in myself, is sort of like losing track of what I really want. Maybe is because I really scare of losing and getting hurt again, therefore I started to look differently about people about me and especially those who's mindset are still not independent enough. I used to think that something is so easy and happiness is all that matters, but some experiences shown that it is not as simple as I thought.
On the previous entry, I mentioned about 'What can I give her' before taking any action, all the while I been trying to answer this question but I will stuck in this stupid question over and over again. I know is wrong to have this mindset that because I'm not rich or handsome enough, is very hard to go after the girl I like.
Ya ya I have no car or what ever but now I can tell you that 'Who Cares!'. It's really childish if we only talks about how rich we are, I met this kind of people before and seriously I disrespect them even if they are some hot babes. This kind of people are best for flirting and I will enjoy playing around with them, is fun after all. Thanks to my friends advices, I am relief that I'm enlightened and no longer need to struggle with these problems again.
Guys, let me just ask you a question, if the girl you interested like another guy who is a bastard, will you fall in love with someone who like bastards and if she likes you, does this mean you are a bastard too? This question is meant for a stable relationship.
So what can I giver her? well I'm still a student who have no stable income, therefore is not possible to talk about stability in life yet, but the best that I can give now is to cover her with loves and happiness. I trust myself this time and I won't regret for having this belief.
We already grew up until so old already, how many regrets have we made? When will be the day that we stop regretting in life? No one can tell you as is only you who is able to answer it. As for me, I choose to stop it now...
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Tuesday, March 18, 2008,9:33 AM 黑色幽默
難過 是因為悶了很久 是因為想了太多 是心裡起了作用
你說 苦笑常常陪著你 在一起有點勉強 該不該現在休了我
不想太多 我想一定是我聽錯弄錯搞錯 拜託 我想是你的腦袋有問題
隨便說說 其實我早已經猜透看透不想多說 只是我怕眼淚撐不住
不懂 你的黑色幽默 想通 卻又再考倒我 說散 你想很久了吧 我不想拆穿你
Although this is a old song already but it's one of the best that I ever heard from him. Still remember that I was only 14 when I first heard of this song, 7 years have passed, so many memories and feelings to recall. Seriously I never like this song at the first place because I didn't really like his style of singing, so is pretty strange how I started to enjoy listening his songs till today.
I guess is time that builds up everything, just like appreciating a great piece of art work. Usually from the first glance, most people will think that this is just a simple piece of artwork with some colors and designs , to simplified this explanation, there's no difference from others. However do we really ever try to understand the meaning and the reason of drawing this particular painting?
That's the biggest problem with many of us, we only believe in first impression and forget about the rest. Take relationship as a example, most people will prefer those whom they fall in love with at the first glance, in the end they regretted their decisions. Why human beings just don't wanna take time to observe others, does the first impression means everything about a person? If is that easy, why there's so many bastards and bitches around us.. I'm sorry to say about this.
At the end of the day, we like to create lots of funny humors around us We didn't realize that because we fool enough to be keep in the dark That's why we will get defeated by our 'Black Humor'
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Saturday, March 15, 2008,9:43 PM Movie Reviews!
First of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO XUE LIN! So yesterday apart from the birthday celebration, it's also another gathering for with Jin they all. Had dinner and movies at Marina Square. Oh speaking about movies, we got to watch two movies on the same night!
Introducing first..
'Horton Hears a Who' It's a really cute and funny movies which I think is one of the best cartoon movies I ever watched so far. A bit lame at some parts but it never failed to fill the whole cinema with funs and laughers. Some might think that is childish to watch cartoon movies, so all I can say is.... 'WHO CARES?!'
Overall Rating: 6.5/10
Okay so continue with the next movie. For this particular movie, please don't say you have no idea about it because is time to 'STEP UP!'
The first time when I came across the movie trailer, I promise myself that I'll watch it at the cinema once it release in Singapore. For people for me who love to dance, dance movie is always the best and I will never failed to watch it.
Just one simple conclusion for 'Step Up 2 The Streets' Everything about the movie is great, just that.. the dance scenes are not that enough for us to enjoy watching!! I am just speaking the truth again, this is the best dance movie I have ever watched!
Don't wait! Catch it in the cinema now dude.. ^_-
Step Up 2: The Streets Overall Rating: 8.5/10
Briana Evigan in the rain, seriously I think she is so damn cool and hot. I kinda admire her character and style.. ^^
Robert Hoffman with his crews. Every moves are smooth and every steps are cool, I have seen a lot of male dance actors and he is no doubt one of the best.
Looking at you I feel the groove and is a feeling for us to step up to!
Why wait for others to force you move? If your feeling is right, you know you shouldn't just sit back and wait for someone to get to you. It takes two hand to clap, so it serve no purpose to keep the wait.
Step up now and enjoy it, although there's no guarantee that you will enjoy every part of it, but it's confirm that you won't regret at the end of the day!
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Friday, March 14, 2008,10:03 AM Walking Away
Sometimes I really hope to walk away.. Walking away from troubles in my life Walking away to find a better day
Sometimes people get me wrong When it's something that I've said or done
Sometimes you feel there's no more fun And you just turn around and walk away
Sometimes people like to compare with you and I But I thought you realize that I'm not like any other guys
Sometimes I can see a lot of things with my own eyes But these just cause me into many sleepless nights
Sometimes you choose to walk away Walking away from the truth Walking away from the fight
I'm sorry to say I'm Walking Away...
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Thursday, March 13, 2008,7:53 AM The Difference?
What does words and actions make a difference?
You can come up with a lot of words but you'll get nothing in the end
Actions can bring you to a lot of things but the result might not be the one you hope to get
Which one is better? You have a choice..
Is a numb feeling instead of the disappointing expression
You Say It Best When You Say Nothing At All
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Tuesday, March 11, 2008,7:49 AM Is Time
Alright so tomorrow shall start work again.. After a few months of study and rest, I guess is time to get back to work and earn some hard cash. Always remember this, waiting alone will never get you to anywhere, this goes the same for everything in life!
Hope everything will go smoothly again and get to know more new friends over there. Although there's a strange feeling dragging me back from work but I know after a few days I will get used to it again. Can't help man, for the sake of my dream to go oversea and some other small factors, I need to work hard and get serious again. Well it's just another part of life..
Oh I told them that I wanna post another great video of........ STEVEN LIM!! He's talking about Edison again.. but this time with some song and more freaking moves..
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Sunday, March 9, 2008,8:29 AM Our Love Story..
It's so freaking strange.. Why a lot of people now tend to make assumption to many things and situation?
In the past I used to make a lot of assumptions too and I remembered quite a few just 'SHOOT' me back with "Hey PLEASE don't assume anything! Don't always think that what you thought wascorrect"
Since then I always tell myself not to guess or assume anymore..
One good example is related to the hot topic 'Love & Relationship' I'm not expert yet but I tell you something that I know so far.
1) If someone asked you for a dinner or movie, does this means he/she is interested in you? 2) Is there any facts showing that going out together equals couple? 3) So what if she allow you to send her home or accept your gifts, maybe she just think that men should be gentleman enough to do all these. 4) So what if he/she loves to talk or get close to you, maybe she's just being a very friendly person to everyone.
So many assumptions to make, what's the percentage that you think of getting every assumptions? 25%? 50%? 75? Or maybe if you are lucky enough, a 100%? Why suffer yourself in a stupid guessing game? Unless you wanna treat the whole thing like a 4D betting system then I believe it will be very exciting for people like you.
However it's never too hard to get a 100% answer and that's to ask he/her directly. Of cos before coming up with that question, there's a need to ensure how well both party interact with each other at all times. Even if there's no answer to it on the spot, allow he/she to think and consider about how it ends/begins. Trust this, rushing into a relationship will never have a good outcome and I seriously know the feeling to it.
For guys, if you are cool and gentlemen enough, just ask her and wait for a reply, if there's no reply received within your estimated time, you should you shouldn't wait anymore. If what you get is a 'NO', life still moves on. Don't come up with those stupid quote like 'I can't live without he/her', come on la you think you still living at 80's meh.. -_-"
And one more thing.. STOP learning from those TV dramas or love movies! If everything seems to be so perfect, no one will be single by now, so.. WAKE UP!
All soccers ball are the same in shape but why not all predictions are correct before hand? Because is the tactics that changed the fate in games.
Haiz actually I also don't know why my mind-set has become like this, I guess I'm getting too much influence by those 'Ang Mo Teachings' or should I said I have suffered quite a few times in this kind of things already. Somehow I don't really trust in many things now, it's too cruel to me if I trusted too much again. It don't make sense too.
I'm not sure about this as I always ask myself this question before I take any actions to step into another relationship, "What Can I Give Her ?" Money? My Time? or simply Happiness? I'm still too scare to answer this now.. Someone please enlightened me !
But somehow I truly understandthat ACTION fully represent everything in life, if I don't take any actions at the right time, I might missed someone who is so valuable me. I just hate the feeling of regretting!
Walking on the street alone, my imaginations couldn't go wild anymore, it's too numb to see so much unhappiness and freaking people around me.
Do you prefer to love him/her more or being loved more by him/her? Someone told me this before, usually when it comes to marriage especially for the ladies, her husband won't be the one she love the most but he will be one who loves her more than anyone does. Make sense or not, you figure it out yourself.
A friend of mine told me that one of his female friend pointed out Singaporean guys as a group of boring kids. Well although I'm a Singaporean but I agreed with what she said, if we are really a group of interesting people, we won't be so childish and making so much assumptions now. So what if you can control many things about your boy/girlfriend now, you can't control her 'Hear & Soul'. We really need a lot of improvement in life!
I never hide the truth that I like to talk cock or being lame, but at least I know what I'm really is in front of others. I can become another person very easily but it don't make sense at all. I'm not a perfect gentleman and therefore I can't 'shower' someone with lots of love and expectations.
Some conclusion that I made recently.. Flirting around talks about money and a stable relationship is about time contribution from me, So how far do you agree with this?
Can't let others see what we meant to be If my hands are tied and your heart's not free It will be the hardest thing to walk away and pretend nothing is true If there's nothing that you can give her She should deserves something more than this..
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Wednesday, March 5, 2008,7:55 AM Quite Funny..
1st Question: You know what's the funny thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to talk about others with a trust in their own belief at the first place and thought that what others are doing was so stupid.... In the end, they do the same thing... Cool!
2nd Question: You know what's the strange thing about human beings?
Answer: They thought they can control everything in life and expect others to treat them as GOD. But... if they are god, why they never listen to what we pray for?
3rd Question: You know what's the most amazing thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to cover other people's backside with their own hand and in the end forget to cover their own....
4th Question: You know what's the most surprising thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to waste their time on finding ways to waste the remaining time
5th Question: You know what's the most cruel thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to play with your ass and force you to be mad!
6th Question: You know what's the most daring thing about human beings?
Answer: They dare to commit suicide but will find someone to accompany them...
7th Question: You know what's the most lame thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to tell jokes to others and it's really funny, but.. others weren't listening?
8th Question: You know what's the most noble thing about human beings?
Answer: They can sacrifices themselves for others which hopes for a return of an empty expectation.
9th Question: You know what's the most stupidest thing about human beings?
Answer: They like to find ways to communicate with others but with different languages...
Last Question: You know why I asked all these?
Answer: Because we know all the answers to above questions but we still like to do it..
That's the 'BEST' thing of life..
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Monday, March 3, 2008,9:01 AM Changi 2nd time!
So last Friday right after the last paper we went for our class chalet again! Hmm due to last minute booking, we only manage to book Aloha Changi which means is our 2nd time having a chalet over there. The 1st expression that the place gave me was like a bit scary as 'Old Changi Hospital' is located just behind us, however now I quite like that place now, so peaceful and relax during our stay. Compare to other chalets like downtown, the only thing that makes them outstanding is just the transport convenience and more activities to do near the chalet. Well however I think the next chalet which most likely is our last class chalet before we graduate will be held at different location, I'm thinking of 'Tanah Merah National Resort' if I'm possible to get someone to book it for us under membership discount.
Well lazy to write out so much things now.. some photos here bah..
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
Videos Sharing
Found some funny videos and wanna share with you all...
Ever know how's the feeling like when you buy 4D and the Top Prize number that comes out is just 1 number different from yours? Let our local famous singer ' Ah Du' to express it out through his latest song 'Cha Yi Dian'
Well maybe some like to gamble and keep borrowing money from others but beware of the consequences for borrowing $10?
Alright enough of money issues.. Everyone know that news and most have seen those photos However do you ever know the truth behind the whole story.. Take a look at this.
Our famous Mr Edison is so famous now that some Taiwanese just wanna be like him!
Ya ya ya I scold him, you scold him & everybody scolding him.. BUT wait! there's someone who is supporting him and standing up for him.. wow Who is he? He is the one who think he is the most 'SEXY' man in Singapore which makes him the famous....... ASSHOLE LIM!
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
-DREAM!-
“On the day when it was raining,
the feeling seems to be so cool
raining moment is still so true
wish that life can always be that peaceful"true”
"Happiness is the thing that I'm being searching for,
