If I never see your face again - Maroon 5 ft.Rihana
Sunday, March 9, 2008,8:29 AM
Our Love Story..
It's so freaking strange..
Why a lot of people now tend to make assumption to many things and situation?
In the past I used to make a lot of assumptions too and I remembered quite a few just 'SHOOT' me back with "Hey PLEASE don't assume anything! Don't always think that what you thought was correct"
Since then I always tell myself not to guess or assume anymore..
One good example is related to the hot topic 'Love & Relationship'
I'm not expert yet but I tell you something that I know so far.
1) If someone asked you for a dinner or movie, does this means he/she is interested in you?
2) Is there any facts showing that going out together equals couple?
3) So what if she allow you to send her home or accept your gifts, maybe she just think that men should be gentleman enough to do all these.
4) So what if he/she loves to talk or get close to you, maybe she's just being a very friendly person to everyone.
So many assumptions to make, what's the percentage that you think of getting every assumptions? 25%? 50%? 75? Or maybe if you are lucky enough, a 100%?
Why suffer yourself in a stupid guessing game? Unless you wanna treat the whole thing like a 4D betting system then I believe it will be very exciting for people like you.
However it's never too hard to get a 100% answer and that's to ask he/her directly. Of cos before coming up with that question, there's a need to ensure how well both party interact with each other at all times. Even if there's no answer to it on the spot, allow he/she to think and consider about how it ends/begins. Trust this, rushing into a relationship will never have a good outcome and I seriously know the feeling to it.
For guys, if you are cool and gentlemen enough, just ask her and wait for a reply, if there's no reply received within your estimated time, you should you shouldn't wait anymore. If what you get is a 'NO', life still moves on. Don't come up with those stupid quote like 'I can't live without he/her', come on la you think you still living at 80's meh.. -_-"
And one more thing.. STOP learning from those TV dramas or love movies! If everything seems to be so perfect, no one will be single by now, so.. WAKE UP!
All soccers ball are the same in shape but why not all predictions are correct before hand?
Because is the tactics that changed the fate in games.
Haiz actually I also don't know why my mind-set has become like this, I guess I'm getting too much influence by those 'Ang Mo Teachings' or should I said I have suffered quite a few times in this kind of things already. Somehow I don't really trust in many things now, it's too cruel to me if I trusted too much again. It don't make sense too.
I'm not sure about this as I always ask myself this question before I take any actions to step into another relationship,
"What Can I Give Her ?"
Money? My Time? or simply Happiness?
I'm still too scare to answer this now.. Someone please enlightened me !
But somehow I truly understand that ACTION fully represent everything in life, if I don't take any actions at the right time, I might missed someone who is so valuable me. I just hate the feeling of regretting!
Walking on the street alone, my imaginations couldn't go wild anymore, it's too numb to see so much unhappiness and freaking people around me.
Do you prefer to love him/her more or being loved more by him/her?
Someone told me this before, usually when it comes to marriage especially for the ladies, her husband won't be the one she love the most but he will be one who loves her more than anyone does. Make sense or not, you figure it out yourself.
A friend of mine told me that one of his female friend pointed out Singaporean guys as a group of boring kids. Well although I'm a Singaporean but I agreed with what she said, if we are really a group of interesting people, we won't be so childish and making so much assumptions now. So what if you can control many things about your boy/girlfriend now, you can't control her 'Hear & Soul'. We really need a lot of improvement in life!
I never hide the truth that I like to talk cock or being lame, but at least I know what I'm really is in front of others. I can become another person very easily but it don't make sense at all. I'm not a perfect gentleman and therefore I can't 'shower' someone with lots of love and expectations.
Some conclusion that I made recently..
Flirting around talks about money and a stable relationship is about time contribution from me,
So how far do you agree with this?
Can't let others see what we meant to be
If my hands are tied and your heart's not free
It will be the hardest thing to walk away and pretend nothing is true
If there's nothing that you can give her
She should deserves something more than this..
>>>And is time to look for the next happiness..! >
